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Being “You”…!

The title seems obvious when you go through it for the first time. But, as soon as you start getting involved in it’s deeper notions,it starts getting more conflicting. Yeah,It will.

Don’t believe me,let’s venture then.

For an instance,let me ask you first-

“What does that mean to you..?”.

You will answer like,that means

“being the real you,the original you” and trust me,when u have answered that you are already trapped in bigger clutches.

I would ask you then-

“WHO ARE YOU..?” and believe me or not,but you won’t be able to answer me that in one go.

Because you are not one thing.

You’ve got shades. You,me and everybody else is so obsessed with those shades that it’s almost impossible to define you on simple notions.

Something simpler and easy.

Something that can be enough.

Something that can content you.

Something that involves you without being corrosive to your inner self.

The thing is this that,

either we have illusioned ourselves with the facts we know or we have got so much obsessed with self that we have long ago left the shores of reality.

The thing is,the more we are pretending to be advanced,the more we are losing our sight to basics.

We don’t have anything discreet regarding own. And,that is really terrifying after you reach certain edge in life. That edge may get relative in terms of realisation,but once you reach there that consequences are more or less similar.

Let me give you some instance.

What if ,I ask you-“how loyal you are?”,

you can’t say “as long as it suits me”.

Loyalty was never meant to be explained in that way. It doesn’t have levels, that for one day you are and on other you take a day off.

In your defend you can say-

“everyone prioritize self and if something doesn’t benefits you for a while,why should I do that?”.

Then,my friend you haven’t understand the nuisances of being loyal. Loyalty is being honest with others first than being with self.

It is not a game you are playing until you don’t get bored.

The case goes similar with the basic life morals too.

We have levels of opinions about honesty,reality and even about our duties.

Look,the purpose wasn’t giving philosophical explaination on morality.

It will still stick to the one I asked-

“Who are you?” and when you answer something in return that isn’t even constant,then that is not you. Certain,not something like that defining notion.

Thing is you can’t have blends for life.

You can’t make other feel better if you can’t stand that own.

You can’t weave stories with loopholes in it.

You have gotta be very honest with your script.

Either you are good or bad (for now).

And,being either is not any assurance for future.

Thing is can you assure self(not others) that it will be always be the good,that you will carry.

Not for others but only because that keeps you sane.

Can you just assert yourself looking into your own eyes that even if I am not that good now,I will do my very best to be that version of my mine that I can relate with.

The version that can calm you down.

As long as you can do that to you,

as long as you can dare to confront those admittances,

you can stand any chances in your life.

It’s about being you by “admittance” of yours.

And,once that happens,you will get to know,who you are.

Never be afraid to know that bad part of yours. It is there for exchange;

Not let it consumed the rest of you.

Admits the real you and see where it takes you….!

Let that admittance to be you first.

After that,it’s that honesty towards your vision that will make you shine.

The Seasons…!

It could have been like any other story,but as it says,when the weather changes,one starts afresh.

So many tales from our life compels us to look life from a perspective that is entirely new to ourselves.

Each story,each incidence,each relation we have can be summed up into seasons.

Now,i won’t say that i am a new Shakespeare of your town.

But,i do have a something to share as a reflection of my understanding on seasons of a relationships.

It can be any relation,but i would be a bit honest that mine is about love.

A love,which made me;

A love which have broken me;and

yes,the same love which still keeps me going…!

So,lets get started.

Season 1:

I call it “STRANGENESS”.

The more vague it looks, the more pure it is in reality.

A person,completely new in your life,like those “strange clouds” hovering around your house and keep us wondering why.

Will it rain today?

No, reality doesn’t goes that way and if you have ever been in love,that ‘why’ is just the beginning of million more which are yet to come in it’s most unexpected way.

Just, try to recall that ‘tryst’ with that stranger. Were you slightest known at that time that this one would change everything in a way?

Then,what was that which made you take that “leap of faith”?

Here comes the next season.

Season 2: WILLINGNESS

Yup,that person could have been just another guy or girl like rest,but things had a certain way to work,if it has to.

Agree it or not,but one day you decided that you will take a chance.

What’s important is that you took a chance on an emotion.Be it friendship,love or any other thing,

but you really let that heart to be heard for very first time and it felt justified beyond all laws of god.

And,this willingness gets you to that build-up stage.

Season 3: The Bridge

Okay,agreed that one can’t guarantee everything about anyone,but ask yourself-“were you really interested in everything initially..?”

Or you were just happy to get closer to other bit by bit in the slowest pace possible.

You get to know the pros and you get to know the cons but all you did that you tried to know and you were happy that things had a start. And,it’s the only way everything gets started.

It is like a opium that triggers you,relieves you and consumes you and all that happens at an unimaginable level.

Those strange clouds have finally turned into the most awaited face in that infinite sky.

Now,that bridge lets you to the next storey.

Season 4: The realisation

The best thing about this season is that you have no idea when did you actually fall for the person.

And,it is probably the best of the feelings one can have in any relation.

You start showing a possession on them and that gives you a courage and brings a certain responsibility.

So,it makes you selfless in a way and that indeed is a rare phenomenon that can only occurs, only and only if your heart and soul is resonance with that of others. This is probably one of those phases,where a complete stranger makes us meet the different version of

ourselves. And,trust me that is a bliss.

Season 5: The Proposal

This is a tricky one. Probably,first of all those mentioned seasons,where things have more of a individual aspects.

There can be different ways,but one thing should be keep in mind that proposal needs to honest.

Nothing beats being genuine you.

Carry your awkwardness and if the other person loves you truly,

he/she will embroider your awkwardness too.

Just make sure,it’s true and that’s it.

Season 6 : The acceptance

Well, to me,it includes rest of all.

Everything till that very end.

The day,two people agrees to be together,they decides to accept each and every aspect of yours.

This means giving your relation every fair chance to survive the thick and thin.

It means you have agreed to share pleasures and sorrows equally.

It means you two have accepted to prioritise “us” in place of ‘i’.

It can be toughest and difficult in those torment phases,but still you two will not leave it midway.

It means surviving all storms together and celebrating all joys equally.

It means being together on a journey no matter what.

EVEN IF,IT MIGHT NOT END LIKE THOSE FAIRY TALES;

EVEN IF,FATE PLAYS ITS PART;

EVEN IF YOU LOST HIM/HER MIDWAY AT ANY OF THESE SEASONS,

YOU MUST CHERISH EACH ONE OF THEM ‘CAUSE YOU ONCE ACCEPTED ALL ITS PARTS.

BE PROUD OF THE SEASONS YOU HAVE LIVED;

THEY MADE YOU,WHO YOU ARE.

AND, THAT IS WHY I WANTED TO WRITE ABOUT THIS VERY LOVE.

I WANTED TO START WITH SOMETHING I WILL BE ALWAYS PROUD OF-

THE LOVE THAT MADE ME,BROKE ME AND STILL KEEPS ME GOING……!

TO THAT LOVE